I am in a good place in terms of my romantic relationship.  I am married to the most wonderful and supportive husband.  He is so in love with me and I with him.  We have a wonderful relationship and are very happy together.  Where I feel my relationship self is lacking is with close personal friends.  I am a typical extrovert with many more superficial friends but not a lot of really close friends.   In terms of family, I think my family is toxic.  We have a lot of unresolved issues that will stay that way.  Right now, my family relationship is where I want it to be.  Close but not that close.

1. More sex.  Sex is a great way to stay close as husband and wife.  We need it to maintain a healthy relationship. I need to put in more of an effort instead of leaving it up to Brad.

2. Make close girlfriends.  How? Identify girls who are close in my age and interest (like Natalie or Kim) and cultivate those friendships.  Don’t be afraid to get close.  Start having girl nights when we move into the new house.  I want a sex and the midland group of friends.